The journey of life Jeffry Al
Buchori really awesome. Tumultuous and sharp turns. Process tremendous struggle
he experienced until he found life calm and reassuring. Consider this story
that is very attractive.
Actually I do not want to say
much about my past. Understandably, my past is very dark. However, after I
thought, who knows of my journey this could be a lesson for others. All right,
I'm willing to share my life experiences to the reader. Insha Allah, no point.
I was born with the name Jeffry
Al Buchori Capital on April 12, 1973 in Jakarta. When
I was born, my family was
already living in Jakarta. I was born as a middle child, I mean all third child
of five siblings. Three male siblings, and the youngest is female. Like the
brothers, the five of us pretty close relationship. Just to fight, anyway, it's
natural. Moreover, the age range we were not far apart.
Apih (call Jefri's father, Ed.),
M. Ismail Capital, is a big tall man native Ambon, while Umi, so I used to call
mom, Tatu original Mulyana Banten. Apih educate the five of us very hard. But,
if not, I will not feel the benefits as they are now. If we were to forget to
pray or chant, well, do not ask to be given Apih punishment. In matters of
religion, and Umi Apih indeed educate us closely.
However, actually Umi is a mother
who is very patient and gentle in dealing with their children. Apih any person
who has always been an objective. She will defend her family desperately if
indeed true family. Instead, he did not hesitate to blame us if it does go
wrong.
Being in the religiously devout
family environment made me love religious studies. When the 5 th grade, I had
to join the championship MTQ to provincial level. In addition to religion,
which is also my favorite subject is art. Somehow, I love performing in front
of crowds. Oh yes, after a rise in class, from class 3 to class I jumped 5. Be
I class with the second sister.
Dual personality
Graduated SD, Apih put me and my
two sisters to a modern boarding school in Balaraja. He wants us steeped in religious
studies. Apparently not all wishes intercepted, all of this because
kenakalanku.
People say, the middle child
usually somewhat mischievous. I do not know the expression is true or not.
Clearly it applies to me. As a middle child, I often make parents upset. At
boarding school, I often acting.
One kenalakanku, at other times
of prayer, I quietly sleeping. Another delinquency, running away from boarding
schools to play or watch at the cinema is a normal thing. As a penalty, the
head often dibotaki. But, still, I'm not a deterrent.
It seems that I like has a dual
personality, yes. On the one hand I was bad, on the other hand the desire to
recite the holy verses so strong. Each existing religious activities, I was
always involved. Together with my two sisters, I also had to make a drama
without a script titled Back to the Way of Allah competed in pesantren. It
turned out that our work was rated as the best drama se-boarding.
In fact, I also champion azan
race, race MTQ, and qasida. But, somehow, I also never behind in delinquency.
Staying in a boarding school environment, my bad behavior instead of
diminishing, increasingly becomes. The climax, I was bored in school at the
seminary.
Finally, only four years old I
was in boarding school. Two years before completing the lesson, I'm out. Then,
Apih aliyah enrolled me in school (high school, Ed.). Apparently out of the
schools did not make me feel better. I began teenager it became more
mischievous.
Know Nightlife
Indeed, anyway, each have a
religious event I never miss. However, I also always want when a friend invited
to the school cafeteria. Not to snack, but do drugs! I also often vague and
leave without a clear purpose. Yes, I like birds escape from the cage, flew
uncontrollably.
SMA is indeed bleak future for
me. Masa is never complete. That is, I have no peer. Why? Yes, though my age is
still 15 years, I hung out with the lads 20s. Courtship was with the older
ones. In this school, I only lasted a year. Moving to another high school,
keseharianku not much different. Even more severe.
From the introduction with some
friends, I know a new adventure. Age 16 years, I began to know the world
tonight. I go to school only during the exam. For me, an important pass. I
would rather go to the disco to dance. Frankly, I had been interested in dance
at the disco. Each to there, secretly I've always studied the movement of
people dancing. Then kutirukan.
I was a dancer, venturing from
one another discotheque discotheque, immersed in the world tonight. When there
is a dance competition, I try to participate. My effort was not in vain.
Several times I have won trophies home as the best dancer. In addition, I also
managed to become a dancer in Dufan in 1990, though only for a year. Until now
there are many of my friends who became a dancer there.
I also had been a photo model,
even participated in a fashion show in the discotheque. Maybe at that time I
felt very cute, yes. But I think these activities are still positive, although
sometimes I like to drink. With all kebengalanku, 1990 I successfully graduated
from high school.
Main Soap Opera
I think I experienced a period of
the most devastating after finishing high school. The story of a friend of the
dancer, introduced me to Aditya Gumai who was active in the world of acting.
Aditya I know the world of acting.
At that time, we still practice
dancing in Taman Ismail Marzuki. When training moved to the Youth Building in
Senayan, so I began to play the soap opera. At first I just watched the players
who were filming, while secretly studying.
I like to steal science. Bedtime
in kos one of my friends near the campus of the Jakarta Art Institute, I often
steal science also from the students. If they're in college or practice, I
often observe them.
Well, when the actors were
training, sometimes I replace one of them. Turns out I was ridiculed. Because
basically I'm the person who does not like to be treated like that, I'd be
encouraged. I'm getting actively practicing self-taught acting. Finally, when
the seniors do not get a turn to play, I've got a role. I asked Aditya playing
soap operas. Casted time, I managed to get a role. In 1990, I was playing soap
operas Lightning Swordsman. At that time, the soap opera is still
underestimated by movie stars. However, Apih furiously against me. Why?
Apparently Apih know exactly what the film world environment. In the past, he
has also been playing an action movie, among other Flying Tiger and Chain
Punch. I beliaulah of blood down the art.
Opposed Apih not make footsteps
recede. Perhaps the way that I had to be like this. None ban Apih that popped
into my brain for kujadikan materials mind. Apih advice no longer listen. Bids
to play the soap opera that made me more confident coming in, this is what I'm
looking for. I do not want to obey the parents desire for feeling myself right.
Finally, the conflict between me and my parents broke.
As a form perlawananku parents, I
never went home. Moving bed at a friend's house. Hair also kupanjangkan. I like
do not have parents. In fact, it never crossed my mind that one day they will
return to the bosom. All I could think only of pleasure and sheer ego.
At the same time, my career in
the world of acting kept going. I even get a preoccupation. After that, I got a
role in the soap opera drama Broken Wings, also starring Dien Novita, Queen
Tria, and the late WD Mochtar.
I increasingly felt not one of my
options after crowned as Best Male Actor in a Soap Opera Youth week held TVRI
in 1991. I'm proud of not playing, because it was won from parents. Arrogance
intensified. I increasingly feel it is the best for me, rather than my parents'
choice. "IN the Kaaba, I ask forgiveness GOD" Bids playing soap
operas came over to Jeff. Along with that, it gets immersed in her world of
darkness. Since the familiar soap opera, the more I liked acting. I do not care
if Apih against me. However, lately I understood, behind disapproval, actually
people keep a sense of pride. Parents stories, they were brought the group to
the Holy Land pilgrimage when I played soap operas aired Broken Wings.
As it turned out, they watch
sinetronku. Comments them proud of me. They acknowledged, it turns out I could
excel. After that, I got many offers to play, among others Sebening soap opera
Love, Opera Three Jaman, and longing. Besides getting stuck out my name,
sustenance also continue to flow.
However, I even forgot myself. Fame is not important to me. The
important thing is to enjoy life. The world continues kugeluti night. If
discotheque, I did not forget to take drugs. In fact, for the affairs of this
one, I can say greedy. Normally, I take the first pill. If the guess is not
"on", I drank one another. And so on.
Eventually, I became very drunk.
My vision became blurred. Want to see the watch in hand, I had to put it to my
face, wagging his head and eyes wide in order to see more clearly. Severe, huh?
That kebandelanku continues.
Kian Severe Addictions
One day in 1992, Apih died of
illness. I regret not playing as long as it has always ignored the advice Apih.
Ahead of his departure, I was standing at her bedside in the hospital crying.
Seeing as it was, Apih say, men should not cry. Men abstain from tears.
Imagine, even in his last moments was Apih still show his loving me that this
ungodly. That afternoon I asked to go home and he gave me the fare. I obeyed.
As soon as I get home, God took it. I'm a heavy shock. When Apih buried, I went
down to the grave and hugged his body. I do not want to leave even though the
tomb would be closed. I do not want to take his departure. I regret my actions.
During Apih still alive, I never wanted to listen to his words. Since then, Umi
raising five of us. My life continues to run. Not the right direction, but I
went back in time as before. Contrition before have so haunted me since left
Apih, seemed to vanish. Kebandelanku even intensified after the death of Apih.
Arrogance is also bigger than before because they feel accomplished and have
more money. Nobody else I listen to his advice.
When my counsel, I snickered. Who
is he that I should listen to his words? Speech parents just do not kugubris. I
was drowning in my own world and become drug addicts. At that time, I reasoned
because there are problems at home. Whereas, in fact any reason, including a
broken home or a friend, is no excuse. Themselves alone the reason, because no
matter what, we are the one who determines all that happens to us.
So, no need to carry around other
people or circumstances. However, this kind of consciousness which may appear
to me that the time was very arrogant? I'm getting away from God. In fact,
there is a mosque next to my house. When the fasting in Ramadan was, I still do
disobedience. Then, when Eid arrived and people were busy bertakbir, instead I
was busy looking for a gap of time and place where I can commit adultery. All religious
knowledge I had learned and the ability to read the Koran as missing. My sanity
as missing. My addiction to drugs is also getting worse, even to the extent of
over-dose and I almost died. Moral evil for evil continue to do.
name strike through
I need not tell the details of a
crime I did. Clearly, one day I was suffering because of fear after doing an
act. I'm really scared! I'm so easy to be suspicious of anyone. I always
prejudiced on anything. My pride and accomplishment on the money disappeared
replaced fear. I do every day is a silence in the room, to always think that
everyone who comes will kill me. I'm busy peeking out from under the door, who
knows there are people coming to kill me. My ears are so very sensitive. I
often thought he heard someone was walking on the roof of the house wanted to
kill me. I agonized for days, weeks, even months. People said I was crazy.
At the same time, addiction to
drugs got me blacklisted world of soap operas. My name is crossed out. Nobody
else would use me as a player. In addition, the girls who was nearby was also
away. I've included a playboy. At the time I was alone, no Umi, which is
already very often kusakiti heart. Umi still love me with great love. No matter
how bad people have commented about me, Umi heart remains good and patient. The
tears never dry to pray for their children, especially me to change so much the
better. Umi sincere prayer granted God. It is remarkable, God shows His
goodness to me. God gave me a chance to repent. This realization emerges
through a process that is so mencekamku.
Invited Umi Umrah
Really, I was scared to death
when one day his own dream of seeing my body in a shroud. And out of
consciousness, I was struck as she asked herself. Was it my body? I also
severely tortured. That is, every bed I always dreamed of a scary incident. In
bed, I got only suffering. I was so scared to sleep. I'm afraid the dreams come
again. I'm also afraid of death. And once I had a chance to challenge death.
Requesting death came because I could no longer hold on when there is a problem
with a girl. Actually trivial, right? But the problem was kuberat-emphasis
themselves. The fear of death that finally made me realize that there is not
left in a state like this, that is, God.
I thought back to him and
regretting all actions over the years. Slowly, my condition improved.
Consciousness was coming back. I see Umi, knees apologizing for all the sins I
did. Umi was remarkable. However already disappoint in such a way, he still
love and forgive. Umi then took me berumrah. With my condition is still
unstable and fragile, we set off to the Holy Land. This time I intend to
recover and return to the path of Allah. There, I experienced some of the
events that made me realize in my sins before. After Friday prayers in Medina,
Umi took me to Raudhoh. I do not know what it Raudhoh, but I followed it. Umi
continue to ask for forgiveness to God. I got out, walked towards the tomb of
the Prophet Muhammad. I bersalawat. Once out of the doors of the mosque, it
felt like there were pulled. I tried to walk hardest, but could not. It feels
very great strength. I leaned against a wall. The tears that had never come
out, now rushing. I repent of my sins, and promised not to do it all again.
Like a movie is playing, all the
sins I've ever done vivid in my eyelids after another, ranging from small to
large. Suddenly out of my mouth came out the sentence request on God's
forgiveness. In Mecca, in front of the Kaaba, I pressed the agency on the
walls. I leaned back, raised his hand asking forgiveness for the sins that I
did too much. Suppose after returning from the Holy Land this sin again, I ask
God to just pull out my life. If, however, has the benefit of someone else, I'm
cured. I once proud, now powerless. After the return of worship, I got better.
I'm trying to survive in conditions repentant, but it is hard exceptional.
***
SO PRETTY FAIRY PLANT LIFE
After repeated ups and downs,
finally Jeffry back close to religion. Affectionate lover who eventually became
his wife come to be generating enthusiasm. Ust struggle to be heavy enough
until he successfully finished speaker. Returning Umrah, I try to live
straight. However, again I was tempted. One night, I and friends planning to
watch jazz in Ancol. I warned them not to take drugs, because we had agreed to
stop using. Apparently, one of my friends still bring cimeng. Apesnya, we
raided by the police in front Hailai. My friends were other vague. I lived, my
friend who brought cimeng, and one other friend. I find it hard blurred because
the car that we use is my car. Finally the three of us were taken to the police
station and detained. I was released because there was no evidence brought. Umi
phone I tried to explain this problem, but Umi will not take my calls.
The telephone receiver even asked
Umi to say, he had a son named Jeffry. My heart is torn apart. Poignant taste
was recognized as a child by Umi. I admit, it must be careful Umi has become
sick. Imagine, I had previously been admitted to repent, even back in the wrong
path. Although I swear to God do not do drugs anymore, Umi no longer believe.
That was the turning anger Umi. Very grateful, God was pleased to help me. Came
a beautiful girl in my life. He would accept me. Previously, many girls left so
I feel lonely in love. Pipik Dian Irawati girl named this model the cover of a
teen magazine in 1995, from Semarang.
Take it easy When Dating
(The following is a narrative
Pipik: I first saw it was eating fried rice in Menteng around 1996 - 1997.
longish hair. At that time, I was with Gugun Gondrong. I understand, Jeffry is
a sitcom actress Longing, because I followed the story. I want to get
acquainted with him, but Gugun forbid. Not him, to break the fast together at
home Pontjo Sutowo, I saw her again. His hair has been cut short. I was
desperate to get acquainted. We started to close and call each other. I do not
know when we were officially a couple, because baseball ever
"invented". He also never expressed love. Time courtship, she ignored
him half dead. Initially, his spirit may too. First we went out together, he
came to the house in Kebon Jeruk, in the heavy rain from his home in Mangga
Dua. Jeffry taxi ride with jeans and boots. He just take the money Rp 50
thousand, took me to at Mal Taman Anggrek. In the cinema, we like to watch on
their own. He did not say anything during the movie.
Since then, we often get
together, because our hobby is watching and eating. The closer to him, the more
I found out that he was a heavy drug user class. My friends started asking, why
do I want to date him. I myself do not know exactly why. Perhaps the affection
that had already appeared in the heart that makes me want to survive. My heart
was touched and would not leave him alone. Of course my family no one knows,
because it deliberately conceal. Maybe they just found out right now, after
reading the story of his life in various media. Meanwhile, I was busy touring
out of town as a model, so we often do not see. Finally we broke up. Time
finally see again, turns out she had a boyfriend again. Because it is still
dear, I often brought him gifts and attention. Jeffry after breaking up with
his girlfriend, we get back together.)
Cake Sale
Pipik very meaningful to me. He
understands, care and attention on me. In fact, I was almost married to someone
else. It turned out that God loves me. God shows, the woman who almost married
was not for me. Pipik like an angel who came with great love. He gives faith,
married him will bring a big change in my life. I went to Umi and asked for
permission to marry. Unbelievably, Umi still accept me with all affection.
Weeping, Umi let me get married. I myself am fairly desperate. Because, at that
time I did not have anything. Body was emaciated, with eyes crinkle, and I
suffered paranoid disease never healed. In fact, I do not even have a job.
To avoid immorality, we were
married under the hand in 1999. My friends who are now dead because of
overdose, was attending a wedding. After that, we stayed at home Umi. Around
4-5 months after that, we were legally married in Semarang. But apparently not
enough married kebandelanku stop. My wife felt the sap. I never used drugs in
front of him, and used the money to buy illicit goods. Another difficulty, I
and Pipik equally unemployed. We've tried to trade pie. At night we fry the
beans, the next morning to make the contents of peanut cake and milk. Then we
Leave to patisserie.
But maybe our luck is not there.
The cake we made only sold a few pieces. In one day we just took home USD 200 -
300. Finally we stopped selling cakes. Our next life we live with great
struggle and patience.
Eating Plate Together
Pipik so incredible fidelity.
Consider the following penuturannya. (The feeling of affection is very strong
made steady marry him. I do not care anymore even though he's an addict, even
had experienced overdose and nearly mad with paranoia. I experienced many
things out of the ordinary with him. If you can not wait, maybe I'm not with
her anymore. Early married, we lived in the house Umi. Although roughing, it
was he who financed our lives. And Jeffry I often eat a plate of both, because
really there was nothing to eat. It's hard to be a wife of her husband
unemployed, especially after marriage I was no longer working.
But I'm sure, God does not give a
trial on his people beyond its ability. I'm sure there must be something that
will be given by God to me. Luckily, Umi is very dear to me.I myself am not a
deterrent to advise him to change lives. We learn from each other equally
accept the advantages and disadvantages of each other. Slowly, his life began
to change for the better, especially after I was pregnant. Perhaps he himself
was tired with life as it is.)
Life in the Way of Allah
Slowly, I came back close to
religion. Major changes occurred in my life in 2000. At that time, Fath Hayat,
my second sister is half years ago died of brain cancer, asked me to replace
him giving the Friday sermon in Mangga Dua. At the same time, he was asked to
become a high priest in Singapore.
Fath was a preacher. As long as
he is in Singapore, all lecture schedule given to me. First lecture, I get a
fee of USD 35 thousand. Money in an envelope that I leave to Pipik. I told him,
this is the first lawful money could give him. We hugged each other while in
tears. Furthermore, my brother asked me to start to become preachers. This is a
way of life which is then chosen. How beautiful life in God's way. I began to
speak and was invited to the seminar drugs in various places. However, the
struggle is not as easy as it seems. Not everyone is willing to listen to my
lecture because I was a former drug user. But I tried to be patient.
Alhamdulillah, the longer the
lecture more acceptable to many people. Even now, I was invited to lecture at
many everywhere, including outside the city and television stations. I was
grateful to be accepted by all circles. I also want to preach to anyone. I want
to have the congregation taklim transvestites. They were, right, also have the
right to obtain propaganda. Our happiness increases when in 2000 the birth of
our first child, Adiba Kanza Zahra. Two years later, the second son Mohammad
Abidzan Algifari also present in our midst. They, also my wife, is the
inspiration and strength dakwahku. Our lives are increasingly complete it.
Until now, I still continue to
proceed trying to become a better person. Hopefully, this story could be a
material consideration which is good to live. My message, love of God and
parents, as well as choose a good friend.
Wallahu'alam bishshawab, ..
#May We can take useful and
valuable knowledge of worship ....
Wal Wabillahi Taufik Hidayah,
...Greetings Beloved .. From Best Friends For Friends ... ... Hopefully this
can open the door of our hearts that have long been locked ...
Ustad Jeffry wrote on twitter, on
April 13, 2013, the day after her birthday "In the end .. All will find a
distinguished name saturation point .. And at that time was my best .. Go .. Go
on anyone .. ??? WHOM 'DIA' for sure .. Bismi_KA Allahumma wa Ahya amuut ..
"
Maybe Ustaz Jeffry Al Buchori
just reminded his followers on Twitter to always remember the Creator. But who
would have his final tweet became one of the signs ust nicknamed Uje died in
the accident.
Ustaz who nicknamed this Uje died
in the crash on Friday, April 26, 2013.
